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Intimacy Disorders: Why Are Relationships So Difficult?

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How Realizing You Don't Like Your Spouse Can Save Your Marriage

EXPLORING HURT & RESENTMENTS TO HEAL A MARRIAGE I help clients heal after infidelity and other devastating relational crises; chronic...

You're Not Stupid, It's Called Betrayal Blindness

Why—In Retrospect—We Missed the Obvious Signs that Our Partner Was Lying “I can’t believe it happened again. Why do I keep giving him the...

Common Signs Your Partner is Having an Affair

During my years of working with intimacy disorders and infidelity, I have been able to collect several, common “signs of an affair”....

The Trauma of Experiencing Betrayal

What You Need to Know to Heal from Trauma and Move On Uncovering an unknown addiction or infidelity can be the most debilitating moment...

Guilt, Shame, & Fear: Why Brene Brown's Work Can Change Your Life

What Everyone Needs to Know About Guilt, Fear, & Shame Brene Brown, PhD’s work and research is pure genius. Of all the material, mentors,...

How to Talk to Your Young Kids About Drugs & Alcohol

I presented at a local elementary school on how to talk to your young children about drugs and alcohol. Obviously, I'm an advocate of...

How Our Thoughts and Feelings Affect Us

Life is not about trying to control our lives through various channels in an effort to avoid being vulnerable to bad things (hurt, pain,...