Infidelity

Finding the Right Support After Betrayal

Why its imperative to see the RIGHT support after you uncover that your loved one has been unfaithful or has an addiction.

Can You Be Traumatized By Your Relationship? PART I

The greatest tools needed to heal from a crisis are 1) gain a better understanding of what’s happening and 2) regain a sense of safety. ...

Boundaries: Why We Need Them & How to Create Them

In my field of treating Intimacy Disorders, we find ourselves talking a lot about intimacy. What, exactly, is INTIMACY? Many use this...

Examining Pain & Hurt in a Relationship

“Those with the capacity to feel great pain are also those with the capacity to feel deep joy. Those who fall hard, rise gloriously”...

Quiz: Have You Lost Yourself & Your Boundaries?

People come to me when they’re struggling. Most frequently, clients are disenchanted with or have been hurt by love and marriage. Their...

Anxious & Avoidant Attachment

I discuss how and why people connect with others, the issues that may arise in adult relationships due to trauma and hurt related to...

The Myths & Realities of Divorce After Betrayal

Generally, we can all conjure up some compassion for someone going through a divorce after betrayal (i.e. Divorcing due to an affair or...

How Realizing You Don't Like Your Spouse Can Save Your Marriage

EXPLORING HURT & RESENTMENTS TO HEAL A MARRIAGE I help clients heal after infidelity and other devastating relational crises; chronic...

You're Not Stupid, It's Called Betrayal Blindness

Why—In Retrospect—We Missed the Obvious Signs that Our Partner Was Lying “I can’t believe it happened again. Why do I keep giving him the...

Common Signs Your Partner is Having an Affair

During my years of working with intimacy disorders and infidelity, I have been able to collect several, common “signs of an affair”....