
Knowing when to walk away is a deeply personal decision that only you can make. There are many questions to explore when you’re assessing whether to stay or go. It is ok to stay and it is ok to leave. But staying should never come at the cost of your physical safety or mental well-being. Here are some things to consider::
👉Did you partner own the extent of his or her betrayal? Does he/she continue to lie or gaslight? Is there empathy for how your partner’s betrayal has impacted you and the family?
👉Is there continued disrespect or broken trust from your partner? Empty promises? No accountability?
👉 Are you doing most of the repair work? Are you feeling drained instead of supported?
👉 Your mental and physical state is always on high-alert due to your partners lack of accountability, follow-through, and honesty.
👉 Is there a foundation of love and hope in this relationship from which to build upon?
If you’re considering leaving the relationship, please consider the following: :
👉Do you have a support system in place?
👉Have you consulted legal and financial experts who can guide you through the process and consequences of separation?
👉 If there are children, is there a plan in place to support and help them through the process?
Please view my recent YouTube video: “Should I Stay or Go”. It's ok to leave and it's ok to go. It's often helpful to explore this difficult decision with a group of other betrayed partners.
KristinSnowden.com has new Betrayed Partner groups posted, starting in March. Registration is open now.
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